Hi, welcome to my first article on Meeting Women Secrets!
For my first article, I would like to address a simple but commonly overlooked issue. It has to do with an important kind of knowledge crucial to success with not just with women, but with all other aspects in your life: know thyself.
This isn’t just some clichéd quote from some ancient Greek philosopher made in a time before Jesus Christ was born. It is a simple statement. But simple statements can hide deep meaning. So let’s analyze this for a moment.
Do you really know yourself?
What does it mean to know yourself? To know your own weaknesses and strengths, your fears and desires, what does that have to do with picking up?
You’re here to attain a certain level of success with women. But what sort of success are you after? Do you want to share the same bed with a lot of women every week? Every night?
Or are you more conservative, and only looking for a more “meaningful” relationship with just one particular woman?
Or perhaps you lie somewhere in between; I know I do. Do you know where you lie?
You better, because if you don’t, you run the risk or applying the wrong strategies and incorrect thinking to your targets. Imagine looking for a meaningful relationship while using aggressive kino (touching, physical contact) and dirty talk. Imagine trying to build your own harem purely by going out on day-time dates. Those are errors in calibration, which I’ll cover in the future, but first you must understand that such errors arise from the ground-zero point that is you.
So the first simple step you must take before you even start interacting with women, before you even go into simple techniques and tactics, is this: know what you want.
I know what I want… What now?
After knowing yourself, you must gain an understanding about your targets. I’m not referring to physical attributes like their legs, chest and ass, but personality traits that women have; and it is these traits that set women apart from each other. You can get the idea of what I’m talking about just by browsing television dramas; there are:
- Good Girls,
- Drama Queens, and;
- Extremes from one end of the spectrum to the other.
As you start out, you don’t need to go into detail about these “types” yet; just be aware that these differences exist and move forward from there. Why do I think this is important?
You will head for failure if you get yourself stuck in any mindset like “all girls are good girls”, or “all women are sluts”. You open yourself to wrongly calibrating strategies, and particularly dangerous ruts in thinking (especially strong, negative thoughts) can become breeding grounds to your own self-destruction.
On the flip side, once you understand that there are different ‘varieties’ or ‘groups’ of girls, you will begin to develop an awareness what kind of women to go after, what tactics work with whom, and in what situations.
To sum up this article, I leave you with another quote, somewhat more illustrative than “Know Thyself”.
“He who knows the enemy and himself will never in a hundred battles be at risk”
- Sun Tzu, Fourth Century B.C.
P.S. Please don’t start thinking of women as the enemy from that quote. That’s just wrong. Sign up for a free coaching session right now.
- XaC
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