Ok, so now you can’t wait to get her to your room. After a few minutes of casual talk, you need to make your move! If you want her right next to you the next morning, or even to have another date with you, then get started on creating emotional connection.
Why is it important?
You can’t snag another date or take her to bed if she doesn’t feel any connection to you. Girls like to feel the spark, my friend. If you let the chance to ignite that spark, then you’ve lost.
Creating emotional connection is important because girls are emotional beings. Now that you know she’s into you, there has to be a connection. There is no better chance to do it but now. Really skilled PUAs will have established that connection even before the bottle of beer you both are drinking is empty. Here are 3 effective tips on creating emotional connection:
Tip #1: The Question Game
To answer all the questions you have for this girl, you need to ensure that you manage to pull off The Question Game without looking like a total jerk. The secret here is to direct the flow of your questions properly. And more importantly, you need to look and sound NATURAL.
You can start out by simply asking her if she wants to play The Question Game. She will definitely be interested so she will oblige. Get her to ask the question first. And if she says “I don’t know what to ask,” then step in and throw those questions her way.
Start by asking what makes you truly happy? You should avoid asking stuff that don’t have emotional depth. You need to give her the impression that you have substance; that you are not only how many boyfriends she has had then slowly steer the direction of the questions to something more sensual. After several minutes, just blurt out: “Would you like to kiss me?”
You can tell she’s interested if she answers “I don’t know” instead of a Yes or No. The moment she utters these words, say “Let’s find out,” and then kiss.
Easy, ain’t it?
Tip#2: Passion to Passion Routine
Passion is something that fuels a person. Women, who are passionate about certain things, are definitely a great catch. With this routine, what you need to do let her set the mood herself. Since you are talking about HER passion, you can simply steer the emotions she’s feeling towards you.
Ask her if she likes doing something. If she says she’s into extreme sports, ask her how she likes it. Ask her what she feels exactly when she is doing it, and then if she would also feel the same way to a person.
The moment you got her elaborating on the thrill and ecstasy she feels whenever she’s doing her thing, ask her if she could see herself having the same feelings with another person. If you like the same things, then you will be able to create a stronger emotional connection.
For this to work out, you need some subtle signs, like pointing to yourself when you ask questions like the one above.
Tip#3: The Working Girl Routine
A guy that is thoughtful will have a better chance of creating emotional connection with a girl. If you notice her tired from work, show your concern. Ask her what she is feeling and then get her to talk about her day at work. Her exhaustion will be lessened by the mere fact that you are talking about her day. It is one good way of relieving stress. Be her de-stressor and you will surely connect with her.
Then when you have built the mood, cut the conversation off, as if you have somewhere to go. Tell her “it’s been fun talking to you. Too bad I have to go. Maybe we could continue this another time in a place where we are free from all distractions?”
Creating emotional connection is part of ensuring that you get another date with a girl. Play this well and you could be on your way to her apartment (or hers in yours) by the second date.
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