What’s She Doing With That Ugly Guy…?

When most guys try to attract girls, their appearance is their foremost concern. Men have become so obsessed with appearance that an entire industry catering to male beauty has sprung up in the past few years. Fossil though it might make me seem, I don’t mind sharing that I can remember when all a guy needed were some nice clothes, cologne, and maybe some hair gel; face scrubs, daily rejuvenating cream, and–shudder–body waxing were strictly for the ladies. Nowadays, you can find all this stuff and more in any supermarket or department store, laden with a heavy musky odor and the word “Men” slapped on the label. There’s so much stuff out there for us to pretty ourselves up with, most guys don’t even know where to start.

But do we really need to? I’ve seen a lot of seriously hot women with ugly guys, and I’m willing to bet you have too. I’m talking some major slobs: fat, bald, unwashed, uncouth, and kind of stinky. In fact, it’s pretty rare that I hit a bar or a party and don’t see some pretty decent-looking girl fawning all over a total troglodyte, often trying to scrape his drunk, belligerent butt off the floor after he’s had a few too many shots.

You don’t need to be obsessed with your appearance in order to attract girls.

Now, I’m not spouting some touchy-feely, love-yourself-just-as-you-are BS; appearance is important, and you should put some effort into yours if you want to attract girls. But it’s far less important than most guys believe, or than society and big pharmaceutical companies try to tell us. So how do all those ugly guys attract hot girls? The answer is attitude.

If you want to attract girls, attitude is WAY more important than looks

That’s right; the right attitude can cover up your physical flaws a lot better than foundation or a clay mineral mask. As we’ve mentioned throughout this course, and in our Members’ Section, attitude is the foundation of the art of the pick up, and should be your primary focus when first learning how to attract girls. All those ugly guys know this; they’ve devoted a lot of time to building self-confidence and perfecting their suave, laid-back attitude and cocky funny sense of humor.

Now honestly, hot girls with really ugly guys are the exception, rather than the rule. You’re going to have a lot more luck attracting women if you dress well and follow some basic grooming techniques. But appearance is just the hors d’oeuvre; attitude is the soup, salad, and main course. And if you spice it up just right, girls might even overlook the leftovers between your teeth.

(Just to be on the safe side though, do brush your teeth.)

Ready to learn more about polishing up your attitude? Then head over to our Members’ Section where you’ll find all the best secrets on developing attitude, dressing and grooming, and everything else you could possibly want to know about how to attract women. Ugly guys are out there stealing women from you right this second, so don’t wait. Sign up today!