Use The Right PUA Routines And Get Laid Tonight

PUA routines are for pick up artists, but the best pick up routines aren’t actually routines. There are individuals that are pick up artists and some of them are entertaining to women, even those that know they are pick up artists.

The PUA routines that they use can be fun starters to conversations sometimes, especially when both people recognize the routine and make fun of it. But to start a conversation, sometimes the best approach is to learn a few key points about conversation, even when you hope to make a date of it.

Know the right things to say

When we talk generally a few things occur. We choose words and we choose ideas. We often insert something else entirely into these or maybe more accurately we choose our words and ideas of our speech to communicate a something else sometimes. Regardless of the layers that we discover in a conversation some things are common in most: focus and continuity.

That use of focus is a bit of a stretch. Really it’s about attention, but that is more for the next section. This section is mostly about continuity, so to continue let’s look at what it is and how we can create it. Continuity implies that what follows is a continuation of what has already happen.

It can really help to create a sense of security. For example, if you know where something came from and know where it is you can begin to know where it might go. That can be a comfortable thing.

We can create that in a few ways. One is by staying on topic or sticking with an idea. For example, if someone is talking about math and they are talking about division, you might interject that isn’t it wonderfully ordered how the divisor and the quotient can reach the original number through multiplication! That’s one of the great things about math you know what you are going to get and know how to get there.

Another way is to simply choose a word. If they mention that they ate a Vegan sandwich at Boca21 yesterday, you might say “You have a beautiful mouth. Boca is Spanish for mouth isn’t it?” Continuity in these instances does a couple of things. It acknowledges that you are aware of what the individual said and you have provided something related from your existence.

Be on the lookout for more telling signs!

There is more to it than words and the route is not always a straight line. In fact at the end of it you may find yourself somewhere completely different than you were hoping to get, but you might like it, or you might want to leave when you realize that it isn’t going in the direction you want it to. Not all conversations are like arm wrestling.

Pay attention to the individual’s body. Reveal emotion and sentiment in your conversation. Think about where the other person leads with words and with action. Do you want to go there?

Sometimes in the course of a conversation you might find you go somewhere you wouldn’t normally go to get somewhere you wanted to. That continuity extends beyond the words and the mouth and the mind.

A method of approach that supplies what is wanted and encourages the giving of what is desired is a good start and it may be easier than copying someone else’s material. PUA routines are most effective when they aren’t pick up routines.

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Why Pick Up Lines Don’t Work!

We already know that pick up lines don’t work.  Now let’s take a closer look at why that is, and what the right way to open a conversation is.

Steer clear of corny jokes

Canned pick up lines aren’t genuine.  They make you sound fake, unimaginative, and boring.  What’s worse is they don’t really provide any opportunity for you and a woman to talk to each other; there’s no way for them to lead naturally into a conversation.  So what can you use instead of pick up lines?

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The Pick Up Line That Never Fails…

What is the best pick up line?  Here are some that I’ve heard: “What’s your sign?”  “Where are they?  Your wings.  Don’t angels have wings?”  “Do you have a map?  Because I keep getting lost in your eyes.”  And my all-time favorite, “How much does a polar bear weigh?  Well, it’s enough to break the ice, I’m so-and-so.”

And here’s a list of all the women I know who have fallen for pick up lines like these:

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Yes, that’s supposed to be a blank line.

Lame jokes just don’t work

Was this type of canned pick up line ever really useful?  I seriously doubt it.  They’re funny, and they’re good for a laugh.  But if you’re actually trying to use them to meet women…well, there’s a reason you need dating advice.

These kinds of pick up lines don’t work for several reasons.  For one thing, they’re not genuine.  No matter how fresh or creative you think it is, to a woman a generic pick up line suggests that either a) you have no personality, b) you’re not comfortable with your personality, or c) you’re not interested enough in her personality to come up with an original way of approaching her.  Put bluntly, it makes you sound fake, boring, and insecure–the complete opposite of the suave, self-confident image you should be projecting.

For another, they don’t really give you an opportunity to talk to each other. A successful approach should begin with open-ended questions.  These lead into a conversation, which you continue by asking more open-ended questions.  The idea is to get the girl talking, providing you with more information about herself and further opportunities to put your devastating charm into action.  Think about it:  what do the pick up lines above give you the chance to talk about?  Absolutely nothing.  They’re conversational dead-ends, and while they might make it easier to start talking to a woman, they only make it harder to keep talking.  Remember, the pick up doesn’t stop with the pick up line.  It’s a process with several steps, and your opener has to lead smoothly into the steps that follow it.  Otherwise, you’ll stumble and get a face-full of rejection.

Real pick-up lines–for real Pick-Up Artists

So what pick up lines do work?  We know they have to sound genuine.  And that they have to be open-ended, leaving both of you room to keep chatting.  That cuts out most of the old standards.  So try this one:

“How’s your day/night going?”

Too easy, right?  Wrong.  It’s deceptively simple, but it works.  It sounds like a normal, concerned question, not a pick up line.  It gives you points for seeming genuinely interested in her.  And it gives the girl plenty of opportunity to spill her guts to you, which in turn provides you with plenty of fuel to keep the ball rolling all night long.

Still don’t believe me?  Try it out for yourself.  Trust me, you’ll generate a lot more interest than you will with a lame come-on like “Is there a fire in here?  ‘Cause you are smokin’!”

So leave those corny pick-up lines at home, and stick to something simple, genuine, and open-ended.  And don’t forget to check out our Members’ Section for more awesome tips on introductions, conversation topics, humor, and more.  There’s a whole world of women out there, just waiting for you to make the right move, so why waste time?  Get game.  Sign up today.