Secrets to Improving Confidence—Fake It ‘Til You Make It

Hey there. So you want to finally get out of your shell and leave your old nervous, un-confident self behind? Good for you.

Being confident is the key for getting yourself out there. Even if you don’t look like someone who’d make it to E’s Sexiest Men in the World, you can still be someone girls adore and want to be around with. Looks don’t have to be an all-encompassing thing. Looks ain’t everything. Improving confidence, on the other hand, can solve a lot of your worries.

Surprisingly, even the most introverted and shy guy can be a chick-magnet. There is such a thing as calm and quiet confidence. Guys who are quiet and shy by nature are the ones who have this. But not all shy and timid guys are confident. And if you belong to the latter, you might need to fake it ‘til you make it.

Fake confidence? Won’t that be similar to pretending to be someone you’re not, which is one of the worst mistakes you can commit? Theoretically, it’s not. While faking an air of confidence can be viewed as pretending to be a confident person, it’s not necessarily bad.

When you say fake confidence, in this context, it simply means you tell yourself you are someone who doesn’t need to be intimidated by others because you look great in your own way and that girls will like you for who you are.

It’s taking on a positive mindset. You’re throwing away all negative and self-destructive thoughts. You dump every single bad self-image you have. You tell yourself that you are not intimidated and scared of things that could go wrong.

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