Kiss Close – How to Do It Right

In the movies, the guy always gets to kiss close when he brings a sweet, young, beautiful lady home. It’s expected by both of them. And the way the kiss happens is nothing short of magical. If only you too can do this effortlessly.

Well, here’s some news for you, my friend: you could—but with some effort, though.

The problem most guys have in learning how to kiss a girl in the first few minutes of their conversation or after a date is not that the moment is not right, it’s actually the fact that the guy doesn’t recognize that the time is right. They search for signs. And when they do see a gleam of hope, they back down due to their low level of self esteem or nervousness and then look for more signs just to be sure. Before they know it, the opportunity’s gone.

I bet you can plead guilty to this one.

Don’t worry. Here are solutions to your dilemma.

Tip # 1: Know when she’s ready for the kiss

Most guys fail to kiss close properly because they simply can’t tell if the girl is willing to be kissed. The first thing they worry about is rejection. And that fear hinders them from reading the girl properly. When you are focused on the embarrassment and the pain of getting slapped, then you will definitely not get any kiss from her.

How do you know when she’s ready for the kiss?

Try to touch her arm or hand when talking to her. Squeeze her hand. Touch her hair and run your fingers through it. If she doesn’t whisk your hands away, squeezes it back, and doesn’t turn her head away, then she’s ready for that kiss.

Tip # 2: Get into her personal space

Once you’ve “invaded” her personal space, it will be easier to kiss her simply because if she’s not interested in kissing you, she won’t allow you in. How do you do it? When she gives you her number, have her write it down in a piece of paper. While she’s writing, get closer until your head is literally over her head. When she looks up, you’ll be there, ready to plant that kiss on her lips.

Tip # 3: Ask permission

I know you should take the reins and be a man in these situations. But sometimes, it helps to ask permission. This could also save you the embarrassment in case she doesn’t want to kiss you. You should, however, make it sound cool and not leave it to “can I kiss you?” because that would suck big time.

What you should do is ask her if she’d like to kiss you. Since you’re giving her the ball, you would be able to decide what to do no matter what her response is:

1. She says “of course” – go and lock lips already.
2. She says “maybe” – say “well, let’s find out” and then plant the kiss
3. She refuses – say “I knew you’d say that. But in case you change your mind, my lips are always free for you.”

In all of the scenarios, you don’t run the risk of getting embarrassed even if she rejects you. Neat, ain’t it?

Now, to do a kiss close properly and effectively, you should, first and foremost, be confident. When you’re confident, it will come naturally. We’ve talked a lot about being confident so you should know how to be one already. Knowing how to kiss a girl at the right moment is crucial to your dating success, so good luck!

3 Kiss Close Routines That Would Get You Laid Right Away

Now that you know how important it is to number and kiss close, it’s time to put all your knowledge to test. They ain’t good for nothing unless you try them, right?

So for all you excited lads out there, here are 3 of the most effective kiss close routines that would help get you laid right away.

Kiss Close Routine 1

One of the best ways on how to kiss a girl is to tease her. When you have established a good rapport with her during your conversation and you feel you want to kiss her already, ask how good of a kisser she is. This can catch her off guard and tell you she doesn’t know. When you get that answer, lean over, put your hands on her chin, tell her “let’s find out” and kiss her.

This works really well because you get to surprise her and there is very little room for refusal since you are having such a good time talking to each other.

Kiss Close Routine 2

During the conversation, try to find ways to touch her. Body contact usually ends up to you kissing her. When you see she’s wearing a fancy bracelet or a watch, tell her how lovely it looks and then reach over and take her hand. Don’t break the contact and continue talking to her about it. Then look into her eyes and, without letting go of her hand, kiss her. Remember to make sure first that she doesn’t pull her hand away when you get it.

Or you can try letting her know how beautiful her hair is. When you do that, run your fingers through it. She will most certainly appreciate it. Once you’re through combing through her hair, rest your hands on her face. Touch her gently, look into her eyes and lean over for a kiss.

Kiss Close Routine 3

It’s always advised to wear perfume or cologne when going out and meeting women because it makes you more approachable and pleasant to be with. But did you know that wearing perfume can also help you kiss close? Yes, you can.

If you can wait until she recognizes how good your perfume smells, that would be the perfect opportunity to ask her to lean over your neck and smell you. Then compliment how good she smells. Do the same and smell her neck. Breathe into hers then slowly take it up until you are very close to her face. Hold eye contact for a few while then slowly lean over for the kiss.

There you go my friends. These are just a few kiss close routines you can use to finally put an end to your dating dilemmas.