Friday, July 30, 2010

Unravel the Mystery Behind Attracting Women

How to attract and seduce womenDo you want to know the secret to attracting women?

Sad to say, most men don’t know how to make women attracted to them. This is why you see a lot of guys try so hard to impress women that sometimes they end up looking like jerks. They try so hard to make a certain woman like them that it doesn’t look natural anymore.

Here is the secret: if you want to be successful in attracting women, you need to DO WHAT A WOMAN DOES; think like a woman!

It is the mere fact that there are far more women who get people to notice them than men. The reason for this is that women have mastered the art of flirting and attraction.

Do you need proof of this?

The proof is everywhere: on television, stories passed down by our ancestors, and a lot of other places. Notice how spy TV shows portray women as effective agents? They can get any information they want from any man by using their sex appeal.

Ever heard of the spy Mata Hari? She’s the perfect example.

Just look at the beautiful women you know. They are flanked with guys trying to win their hearts. These women don’t even need to lift a finger to get the guy she wants. All she has to do is pick one among these hordes of men.

So if you want to know ways to attract women, learn from them! They don’t have to be the only ones to get all the fun, right?

Know what you’re looking for

There are things you are looking for in a girl. Always take them into consideration when meeting women. If a certain girl doesn’t fit the category, move on to the next. Do not settle for just any woman because they are easier to get. Empower yourself by sticking on to your standards and do the selecting.

Be picky

You don’t have to settle for anything less. Why is it that women get to choose whoever they want and you don’t? You can have that too. Show women that you are not desperate; place a high value of yourself and verbalize it. Let them know that you are a prize. Your new attitude should manifest in your behavior and actions. This should get women lining up and trying to impress you.

Make a good first impression

No matter what people say, looks DO matter. You can’t get a girl to notice you if you aren’t pleasing to the eye. So dress to impress. Seek help in picking your wardrobe. Your clothes can do a lot to highlight your features. Don’t forget to spray an ample amount of perfume or cologne before you head out. Girls are aroused by men who smell great.

Know how to keep an interesting conversation

You don’t need to be super-intelligent and talk about world news in details or how forex trading is currently doing. But you should know at least something. Give her something sensible to talk about. Keep her interested; women like talking, remember?

Be funny

Have a good sense of humor. You must know how to make fun—even of yourself. Nothing is more attractive to a woman than a man who knows how to dress well, smell great, carry a conversation, and make her laugh. This is a killer combination. If you work on this, you will surely not have any problems attracting women.

Be exciting and unexpected

Keep her on the edge of her seat. Do unexpected things. Keeping her excited by going against the norm will definitely help you score points. Don’t go with the traditional dinner dates; take her outside. Think of something adventurous to do. Instead of complimenting how pretty she is, admire her wit.

What would you do if despite discovering the secrets to attracting women you still can’t find the courage to walk up to them and ask them out? Then this is what will solve your dilemma. Sign up for our amazing membership site and you will learn everything you need to know on how to get a date–easily. Join us now by CLICKING HERE.

How Do I Know If She Likes Me?

November 25, 2008 by John Lione  
Filed under Building Attraction, Flirting With Women

If you’re asking yourself “does she like me” over and over again, then you’re missing out on one of the main underlying messages of this course. Granted, we’ve never explicitly stated it before, but we’ve tried to hint at it a lot. Still, if you’re not getting it, let me go ahead and spell it out for you:

Attraction does not just happen–you have to CREATE it

From a statistical standpoint, you are more likely to win the lottery, get hit by an asteroid, or fall into an alternate dimension where cats keep people as pets than have a woman wake up one day and start liking you out of nowhere. It just doesn’t happen. Your time is better spent learning how to poop in a litter box than wondering “does she like me”.

Attraction comes from action–your actions. It doesn’t just come out of the blue, you have to create attraction. You do this with your attitude, your appearance, and conversational dynamics, which you use in the ways we teach in this course and the Members’ Section. Forget everything you’ve learned from dorky sitcoms and romantic comedies: it takes effort on your part to get a woman interested in you. So asking “Does she like me?” is a waste of time; if you’re putting forth that effort, and doing it correctly, she likes you. If you’re not, she probably doesn’t. That simple.

Of course, every situation is different, so you’re not guaranteed to interest 100% of the women you approach, even if your game is top-notch. Still, if you approach a woman and she’s not interested, despite your best efforts, she’ll let you know, thus making it pointless to ask “does she like me”. In any event, most guys get into this situation with one particular girl. Usually it’s someone they’ve known for awhile, but they haven’t had any success with, so they fixate on her, wondering if she likes them, pining away for days, weeks, months–you get the picture.

Don’t obsess over one girl!

This is actually the #1 mistake most guys make: they focus on one girl, unsure if she likes him or not. Most of the time, the reason they do this is because they were too insecure to approach her in the first place, and they end up in a nebulous relationship where they know each other, and that’s it–they’re not friends, not dating, not really much of anything. Again, if you haven’t approached a girl and made the effort to create attraction, she probably doesn’t like you. So get up your nerve and put the moves on her; you’ll know within a few minutes whether you’ve got a chance or not.

Sometimes you can approach a girl and still get a vague response from her. If, after you’ve given it your best shot and you’re still not sure if she likes you, move on. Worrying yourself silly about one girl’s ambiguous intentions keeps you from meeting other women, who will more likely than not prove much easier targets.

Occasionally, a woman will make it clear, in no uncertain terms, that she doesn’t like a guy, and he’ll keep approaching her, not getting it, wondering if he’s got a chance. He doesn’t. He is called a “stalker”, and may be subject to criminal prosecution. If you find yourself in this situation, definitely move on to another woman.

In short, wondering “Does she like me?” is pointless. You have to create attraction; it doesn’t create itself. If you approach a girl, you’ll find out soon enough whether there’s a spark or not. And if she still isn’t sending any clear signals after you talk to her for awhile, move on: she’s just keeping you from happier hunting grounds.

Ready to learn how to create attraction, and put an end to those restless nights of “Does she like me?” ricocheting around your brain? Then head over to the Members’ Section, where you’ll find all the best techniques for creating attraction–and gauging whether or not it’s working. Don’t waste another day wondering if there’s attraction or not; be proactive. Arm yourself with the knowledge that will let you go out and make it happen. Sign up today!

What’s She Doing With That Ugly Guy…?

When most guys try to attract girls, their appearance is their foremost concern. Men have become so obsessed with appearance that an entire industry catering to male beauty has sprung up in the past few years. Fossil though it might make me seem, I don’t mind sharing that I can remember when all a guy needed were some nice clothes, cologne, and maybe some hair gel; face scrubs, daily rejuvenating cream, and–shudder–body waxing were strictly for the ladies. Nowadays, you can find all this stuff and more in any supermarket or department store, laden with a heavy musky odor and the word “Men” slapped on the label. There’s so much stuff out there for us to pretty ourselves up with, most guys don’t even know where to start.

But do we really need to? I’ve seen a lot of seriously hot women with ugly guys, and I’m willing to bet you have too. I’m talking some major slobs: fat, bald, unwashed, uncouth, and kind of stinky. In fact, it’s pretty rare that I hit a bar or a party and don’t see some pretty decent-looking girl fawning all over a total troglodyte, often trying to scrape his drunk, belligerent butt off the floor after he’s had a few too many shots.

You don’t need to be obsessed with your appearance in order to attract girls.

Now, I’m not spouting some touchy-feely, love-yourself-just-as-you-are BS; appearance is important, and you should put some effort into yours if you want to attract girls. But it’s far less important than most guys believe, or than society and big pharmaceutical companies try to tell us. So how do all those ugly guys attract hot girls? The answer is attitude.

If you want to attract girls, attitude is WAY more important than looks

That’s right; the right attitude can cover up your physical flaws a lot better than foundation or a clay mineral mask. As we’ve mentioned throughout this course, and in our Members’ Section, attitude is the foundation of the art of the pick up, and should be your primary focus when first learning how to attract girls. All those ugly guys know this; they’ve devoted a lot of time to building self-confidence and perfecting their suave, laid-back attitude and cocky funny sense of humor.

Now honestly, hot girls with really ugly guys are the exception, rather than the rule. You’re going to have a lot more luck attracting women if you dress well and follow some basic grooming techniques. But appearance is just the hors d’oeuvre; attitude is the soup, salad, and main course. And if you spice it up just right, girls might even overlook the leftovers between your teeth.

(Just to be on the safe side though, do brush your teeth.)

Ready to learn more about polishing up your attitude? Then head over to our Members’ Section where you’ll find all the best secrets on developing attitude, dressing and grooming, and everything else you could possibly want to know about how to attract women. Ugly guys are out there stealing women from you right this second, so don’t wait. Sign up today!