The Scariest Male Disease: Approach Anxiety

So you’ve read around, found a few good ideas, now it’s time to put them into action. Wait, what? Now? How about next time… that girl over there looked busy… I’ll do it tomorrow… or next week… or a month later… Soon you get yourself stuck in a vicious cycle of inaction.

It’s all in your head, dude…

You had it all down in your head. You’ll just go up to that pretty young thing, spew out those lines and impress her so well that she’ll happily hand over her number so you can get together later. You take the first few steps towards that very cute backside… and then you do a complete about-turn.

In our world we refer to this as Approach Anxiety, or AA.

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Secrets to Overcome Rejection when Dating Revealed

How do you overcome rejection when dating? Rejection from a girl is something all of us have to live with for the rest of our lives. It is a normal occurrence, as harsh as it may be some times. You need to get used to it because you will have your fair share of getting rejected by girls you wish to date.

The reason why some guys don’t have the courage to ask a girl out is the fear of rejection. When a great-looking girl walks in a bar and smittens you, the first thing that comes to mind is to ask her out for a date.

And now, standing beside her, holding a glass of strong gin to muster up the courage to say the words “can I ask you out?” your palms suddenly becomes sweaty and a loud thumping begins in your temple. Your stomach does a somersault and your knees buckle. What’s that?

Approach anxiety, my friend. All you need to do is take a few steps towards her direction and open your mouth. But as much as you want to do it, your body is suddenly paralyzed with fear—fear of getting rejected.

Never miss an opportunity

Clock is ticking—5, 4, 3, 2 and 1. Then out she walks. You’ve missed a great opportunity.

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