How to Approach Women Anywhere Successfully

Are you looking for tips on how to approach women?  Read on and learn especially if you are new to the dating scene or perhaps returning from a hiatus. Approaching women need not be so daunting if you know how.

Set the Scene

Remember that you are in control of the situation.  Select the place where you are most comfortable in and take the steps on how to approach women.  By choosing a familiar location, you can be assured that your nerves will be less rattled and you won’t be so nervous.  For example, if you are an avid reader and you would prefer to meet women who love to read, then visit your local bookshop and start from there.  It helps a lot if you are in your natural element so that you won’t come off as pretentious.

Read the Signs

Know if a woman is attracted or at the very least receptive to you.  Smile and see how she reacts.  One of the most valuable tips on how to approach women is to note positive non verbal cues as:

• Casting glances in your direction
• Always seeming to be near you
• Showing opening gestures such as uncrossing arms, leaning towards you, tilting her head, etc.
• Smiling back

Approaching women who are responsive is already 50 steps done in your journey of a 100.  You are halfway there.

Forward March

After receiving encouraging signs from a woman, approach confidently – no hesitation – and start a conversation.  It need not be profound instead make it casual. Ask open ended questions.   Following the above example in the book shop, maybe you can ask her opinion about a certain book or a certain author.  One thing about approaching women, show a little vulnerability.  By asking for her suggestions or her views, you are showing that you give value to her inputs and you are not scared to show that you do not know everything.

Be Cool and Assess

Listen to her.  I repeat, listen to her.  Show her that you are giving your full attention to what she is saying by maintaining eye contact and making appropriate responses.  By her answers, see if you are interested in pursuing the relationship further.   Remember, you are in control of the situation and it is your call whether to continue or not.

Short, in this Case, is Better

Keep the conversation short by being direct and clear of your intentions.  Although it may seem very forward to immediately show your intentions of trying to get a date, some women prefer the non-circuitous approach.  If she is not receptive to you, then by all means, move on.  Aren’t you glad you did not waste time in pursuing a dead end?  An interesting fact is, some women are intrigued by this apparent indifference and will do a 360 and pursue you!

Follow Through

After getting the go signal, make your call.  In this case, get her number or her email address.  And the rest is up to you – the unwritten law here is a three to four day pause before the actual call.

See?  There’s nothing to it.  As you can see, you don’t have to be the Einstein of dating to know how to approach women…and be successful at it. Do you want to know how to approach women anywhere successfully and be a modern-day Casanova? Join now!