About: XaC
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- XaC is a Pick Up Artist that currently spreads his charm in Australia. He is well known for being an expert at Extreme Card Manipulation. He has great insights on inner game and manages to explain complex concepts in simple words. So stay tuned for his posts!
Posts by XaC:
Eliminating Your Bad Traits Can Be Better than Adding New Traits
January 6, 2010 by XaC
Filed under Module 1: Approaching
A lot of stuff about pick-up out there assumes that people are lacking something… that people need to upgrade and get add-ons. Here is a new perspective that looks at the opposite end of the spectrum.
Elimination
“One does not accumulate but eliminate.
It is not daily increase but daily decrease.
The height of cultivation [...]
The Scariest Male Disease: Approach Anxiety
December 30, 2009 by XaC
Filed under Module 1: Approaching
So you’ve read around, found a few good ideas, now it’s time to put them into action. Wait, what? Now? How about next time… that girl over there looked busy… I’ll do it tomorrow… or next week… or a month later… Soon you get yourself stuck in a vicious cycle of inaction.
It’s all in your [...]
Taming Your Ego
December 23, 2009 by XaC
Filed under Self Improvement
Before, I talked about the importance of self-awareness. This time, we’ll be looking at the other side of the spectrum. Think of this as another exercise in training your own self-awareness.
Inflating and deflating the ego
You may have heard of this term before in various contexts:
“He has a big ego”
“He’s such an egotistical maniac”
Etc…
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Can You See the Matrix?
December 16, 2009 by XaC
Filed under Self Improvement
There is a term in the world of pick-up that succinctly expresses one of the more important skills one should develop, and not just when interacting with women. Personally, I view it almost as a form of clairvoyance. The following article is written to explain the term, as I understand it.
Understanding the Matrix
If you’ve been [...]
Taking Lessons from Hollywood
December 9, 2009 by XaC
Filed under Module 1: Approaching
Here’s something new, a list of movies that I think are worth putting on your entertainment shelf. All I ask is this: don’t just watch for the entertainment quality. I want you to think about the messages they are conveying. Analyze not only the messages behind the frames, but also the characterization of the actors [...]
Balancing your approach…
May 3, 2009 by XaC
Filed under Module 1: Approaching
Imagine you’re on a rocky boat. If you lean too far to the left, the boat will roll over. If you lean too far to the right, you will also roll over. Stay in the middle, and you should be safe. Just watch out for the big waves…
How NOT to pick up
Here’s something that happened [...]
Get A Life!
May 3, 2009 by XaC
Filed under Self Improvement
Sometimes you have to remind yourself that being good with women isn’t the be-all and the end-all. It’s one of life’s paradoxes; the more obsessed with women you are, the less likely you will be able to attract any. At this stage, you’ll need to take a step back and find something else to take [...]
What You Want Comes First!
May 3, 2009 by XaC
Filed under Module 2: Inner Game
Hi, welcome to my first article on Meeting Women Secrets!
For my first article, I would like to address a simple but commonly overlooked issue. It has to do with an important kind of knowledge crucial to success with not just with women, but with all other aspects in your life: know thyself.
This isn’t just some [...]

