The Scariest Male Disease: Approach Anxiety

So you’ve read around, found a few good ideas, now it’s time to put them into action. Wait, what? Now? How about next time… that girl over there looked busy… I’ll do it tomorrow… or next week… or a month later… Soon you get yourself stuck in a vicious cycle of inaction.
It’s all in your [...]

Taming Your Ego

Before, I talked about the importance of self-awareness. This time, we’ll be looking at the other side of the spectrum. Think of this as another exercise in training your own self-awareness.
Inflating and deflating the ego
You may have heard of this term before in various contexts:
“He has a big ego”
“He’s such an egotistical maniac”
Etc…
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Understanding Anti-Slut Defense – How Social Conditioning Can Affect a Woman’s Inclination to Have Sex with You

You’re in a bar; this hot chick seems to be giving you more than casual glances and you can’t help but get attracted. The next thing you know, both of you are dancing on the dance floor like Jennifer Grey and (the late) Patrick Swayze in Dirty Dancing. You think you can end the night [...]

2 Effective Ways on How to Ask a Girl on A Date

Before you can get her to bed, you need to take her out on a date. The question is can you summon up the courage to call a girl and invite her out? Do you know how to ask a girl on a date and get a “yes?”
Some men feel goose bumps whenever they have [...]

Can You See the Matrix?

There is a term in the world of pick-up that succinctly expresses one of the more important skills one should develop, and not just when interacting with women. Personally, I view it almost as a form of clairvoyance. The following article is written to explain the term, as I understand it.
Understanding the Matrix
If you’ve been [...]

Secrets to Overcome Rejection when Dating Revealed

How do you overcome rejection when dating? Rejection from a girl is something all of us have to live with for the rest of our lives. It is a normal occurrence, as harsh as it may be some times. You need to get used to it because you will have your fair share of getting [...]

Fat and Ugly? No Worries. Learn How to Pick Up Women On the Street Effortlessly

You’re unfit; you’re starting to grow a beer belly; you don’t dress like the men of GQ; you look so average you’ve been called ugly more than once in your life. Should you let it get in the way of you getting a girl you meet on the street to have lunch with you? How [...]

Taking Lessons from Hollywood

Here’s something new, a list of movies that I think are worth putting on your entertainment shelf. All I ask is this: don’t just watch for the entertainment quality. I want you to think about the messages they are conveying. Analyze not only the messages behind the frames, but also the characterization of the actors [...]