Negs: Not Always The Best Approach

When, Why and How Neg Hits Can Backfire

Of all the weapons in your arsenal, negs are probably the most useful. They regulate the level of attraction, allow you to regroup for a moment and ensure you are always in control. But, a lot of guys who are new to the PU scene can overplay on [...]

Sexual Escalation: Creating a Powerful Response

Learning to talk to women is important, but if you never learn about sexual escalation, promising encounters with hot women fall flat.  You have to understand how to push the right buttons.
Escalating Sexuality

We’ve all felt it.  You meet someone and simply think they’re attractive.  You talk a little and it grows.  Women giggle more, [...]

Energy: The Secret To Your Inner Game

Why Focusing Your Energy is Crucial

Many people think that inner game means confidence. And, to a certain extent that’s true. But any true PUA knows there’re more to it than confidence. There’s more to a successful close than knowing the rules and executing them well. The real secret is, it’s about how you focus your [...]

The Alpha Male Attitude: The Key to Being Desirable

The number one way to improve game is become an alpha male—that’s why learning pick-up is so hard, but we all know alpha guys we can observe.  Everyone knows that small guy who was always the leader growing up—he was the man and he controlled every situation.  If you had put that guy in a [...]

Building Confidence: Practice Makes Perfect

You’re Good Enough, You’re Smart Enough, and Gosh Darn It, People Like You! Defining Confidence

Being a major PUA may attract the ladies, but here’s a little known secret: It’s your confidence that will make the difference between closing and hearing the dreaded, “let’s just be friends.”
Ouch. So, how do you go about building confidence? Well, [...]

How to Be Cool: It Can be Learned

Being cool is more than just a word.  Being cool is having a presence people admire and want to be around.  Some guys have it; some guys don’t and think they never will.  That’s bull.  It’s a simple combination of mindset and social skills.  If you come across as a relaxed, confident man with little [...]