In the movies, the guy always gets to kiss close when he brings a sweet, young, beautiful lady home. It’s expected by both of them. And the way the kiss happens is nothing short of magical. If only you too can do this effortlessly.
Well, here’s some news for you, my friend: you could—but with some effort, though.
The problem most guys have in learning how to kiss a girl in the first few minutes of their conversation or after a date is not that the moment is not right, it’s actually the fact that the guy doesn’t recognize that the time is right. They search for signs. And when they do see a gleam of hope, they back down due to their low level of self esteem or nervousness and then look for more signs just to be sure. Before they know it, the opportunity’s gone.
I bet you can plead guilty to this one.
Don’t worry. Here are solutions to your dilemma.
Tip # 1: Know when she’s ready for the kiss
Most guys fail to kiss close properly because they simply can’t tell if the girl is willing to be kissed. The first thing they worry about is rejection. And that fear hinders them from reading the girl properly. When you are focused on the embarrassment and the pain of getting slapped, then you will definitely not get any kiss from her.
How do you know when she’s ready for the kiss?
Try to touch her arm or hand when talking to her. Squeeze her hand. Touch her hair and run your fingers through it. If she doesn’t whisk your hands away, squeezes it back, and doesn’t turn her head away, then she’s ready for that kiss.
Tip # 2: Get into her personal space
Once you’ve “invaded” her personal space, it will be easier to kiss her simply because if she’s not interested in kissing you, she won’t allow you in. How do you do it? When she gives you her number, have her write it down in a piece of paper. While she’s writing, get closer until your head is literally over her head. When she looks up, you’ll be there, ready to plant that kiss on her lips.
Tip # 3: Ask permission
I know you should take the reins and be a man in these situations. But sometimes, it helps to ask permission. This could also save you the embarrassment in case she doesn’t want to kiss you. You should, however, make it sound cool and not leave it to “can I kiss you?” because that would suck big time.
What you should do is ask her if she’d like to kiss you. Since you’re giving her the ball, you would be able to decide what to do no matter what her response is:
- She says “of course” – go and lock lips already.
- She says “maybe” – say “well, let’s find out” and then plant the kiss
- She refuses – say “I knew you’d say that. But in case you change your mind, my lips are always free for you.”
In all of the scenarios, you don’t run the risk of getting embarrassed even if she rejects you. Neat, ain’t it?
Now, to do a kiss close properly and effectively, you should, first and foremost, be confident. When you’re confident, it will come naturally. We’ve talked a lot about being confident so you should know how to be one already. Knowing how to kiss a girl at the right moment is crucial to your dating success, so good luck!
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