Using cocky comedy effectively can be kind of tricky at first, but once you get the hang of it, it becomes second nature. Just remember that your primary means of attracting women is attitude; work on that confident, cool demeanor first, as it’s going to be your foundation. Cocky comedy is spice. Without it, you run the risk of the attitude you’ve spent so much time cultivating being perceived as an empty facade. However, relying too much on cocky comedy can make you seem jerky and not worth taking seriously, so it’s important to experiment in order to find the right balance.
Cocky comedy is a multi-faceted art form. Once you get the basics down, you’ll discover that there are a few different approaches you can take, depending on the situation. Individual women respond to different kinds of humor in different ways, so you’ll want to vary your routine in order to find out what jokes are most effective. However, the following types of cocky comedy are field-tested and proven to work across a broad spectrum of women, and are a good place to start.
Accuse her of trying to make things sexual
For example, say she says you’re cute. Try coming back with something along the lines of, “Yeah, but what about my personality? Am I just a pretty face to you?” Or she compliments some specific feature of yours, like your eyes. Respond with, “Don’t you care about my mind, though? You’re just interested in my body, aren’t you?”
The idea here is to introduce the sexual element into the conversation, but in a tricky way that makes it appear that she did it–even if she didn’t intend to. This is kind of a reverse psychology, mind game tactic, and it works on a couple of different levels. First, it gets her thinking about sex, and about her sexual interest in you. Because she wasn’t intending to make a sexual comment, she starts second-guessing herself, wondering if she is, in fact, making overtly sexual remarks, perhaps because of a subconscious interest. Nurturing this train of thought through cocky comedy will turn it into full-blown, conscious attraction before you know it.
On another level, it works because it’s the complete opposite of trying to impress the girl–which, if you’ll remember from other videos, does NOT work. One of the human mind’s many quirks is that it responds negatively to persuasion; if you attempt to persuade a girl to like you, she’s probably not going to. However, if you artfully try to dissuade her from liking you, with subtle jibes and accusations, she’ll start liking you, oddly enough. Use this to your advantage.
One potential pitfall with this approach to cocky comedy is overdoing it. Once you’ve raised her level of attraction to a certain point, it’s safe to reciprocate. Don’t joke around so much that she thinks you really are offended by her advances.
Make them work for it
Another approach you can try is making the woman try to impress you. When she comes up to you on the dance floor, tell her exactly that: “Impress me!” She’s got to have some decent moves, right? If you’ll remember, we’ve warned you several times against trying to impress girls, and the reasons you shouldn’t are the exact same reasons that this approach works. Making her impress you, instead of the other way around, reinforces your position as the alpha male, as the prize she should be fighting for.
Another variant on this approach is to subtly hint that you’re not impressed with something about her. If she tells you she drives a huge luxury vehicle, try, “Picking up an old lady car early, huh? That’s good, prices are going up.” Or if she mentions she’s a lawyer, “Oh, a lawyer. *yawn*”. The natural human reaction to a statement like this is to try and defend oneself; she’s likely to start trying to impress you with all the reasons her car is great, or her job isn’t boring. In other words, striving for your approval. This is primordial mating behavior, and if you can get her into this mindset, attraction will naturally arise from it.
Two things to watch out for with this method. One, don’t dis on anything the girl might be really sensitive about: i.e. a well-paid corporate accountant can probably take some ribbing, but if the girl’s a waitress struggling to pay her bills, making fun of her job probably won’t get the results you were hoping for. Two, be careful not to end up trading put-downs. If she comes back with something like, “Well, what do YOU do for a living?”, respond with more cocky comedy, preferably in the form of something wildly unbelievable: “I’m a lion tamer/condom tester/deposed Eastern European prince.” Aside from breaking the mystery rule we’ve established in previous videos, telling her your real job risks putting you in a position where either you’re butting heads, or even worse, trying to defend yourself to her. Neither of these are very good at creating attraction.
Remember, cocky comedy, and dating in general, isn’t rocket science. If it were, only way smart people would breed, and humanity would be a race of super-geniuses. It isn’t. We’ve all got a chance. So don’t forget your arrogance + humor basics, and take these simple routines as a starting point, adapting them as you see fit. Pretty soon, you’ll be contributing to the gene pool too.
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