Being cool is more than just a word. Being cool is having a presence people admire and want to be around. Some guys have it; some guys don’t and think they never will. That’s bull. It’s a simple combination of mindset and social skills. If you come across as a relaxed, confident man with little regard for what others think, you will be cool. This can be learned.
Sexual Confidence
One of the main traits a cool guy has is sexual confidence because it affects how you walk, talk, and behave. Your feelings about your sexuality are more obvious than you think, even if people don’t realize what they sense about you.
Sexual confidence stems from the knowledge that you could blow a woman’s mind in bed—that you could give her one of the best sexual experiences of her life, and she’s missing out by not knowing that. Why does this make you cool? Well, it ends that constant search from validation from women and the doubt you could make the most out of sexual encounters.
Insecure guys are unsure of themselves around women. Why? Because they are unsure they are man enough to make talking to her worth the energy. They want women they think are sexy, but if given a chance they would probably crumble. So they stand in the bar, holding a beer in front of their chest, avoiding eye contact, fidgeting, and wondering if they should just go home. If you want to know how to be cool, you have to develop sexual confidence so you can stop being this guy.
Be Cool
p style=”text-align: left;”>To be cool, you have to lighten up. Don’t try so hard to get everyone’s attention. Cool guys are relaxed. When a good-looking girl says hi, they don’t jump for the chance to talk. A beautiful face doesn’t affect their reality. This is where there sexual confidence comes into play. They are the prize and not the other way around.
Cool guys also have a sense of style and don’t talk like a square. They use slang and have an interest in music, fashion, and the world around them. This can be learned. Develop style by looking at what successful guys are doing and creating your own. Create an awesome enough life that you would have to actively make room to accommodate a girlfriend so she better be worth it. Find out what kind of music makes you feel good about yourself and develop an active interest in it. It doesn’t matter what genre; just have a sense of culture. Cool guys come from all walks of life.
If people say hit to you or talk to you, be friendly, but don’t be eager. Lean back a little, nod your head, say “what’s up.” Part of being cool is showing you know the world isn’t a textbook and people don’t talk like English professors. The world is fluid and diverse and we talk like normal people. If you take life too seriously, you are not cool.
Become Cool: Make it happen.
Again, being cool can be learned. By increasing your confidence, and especially your sexual confidence, you become in your element in every situation. The best thing about learning about pickup is what it does for your personal life. Improving game strengthens your mindset while making you more relaxed and natural in social situations. The routines are just a way to convey how you feel about yourself, which may not be real at first but will be as you gain confidence.
To be cool and increase your sexual confidence, you become the best you, and after a while most guys drop the routines because they don’t need them anymore. The parts they do need become second nature.
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