Women have great instincts. They know it and that’s why they act mostly based on their gut feelings. They can usually give a good read of people. And it is because of this characteristic that most guys fail in meeting and dating women.
Men who want to meet women badly usually do stupid things. They do and say all the wrong things because they are too nervous. They act desperate. These men are willing to do whatever it takes to make a woman interested in them. The thing is this doesn’t work. For you to effectively meet women, you have to be who you are. You have to learn how to be confident.
Desperation is every dating man’s enemy. Why? It’s because it rattles your mind and cause you to commit horrible dating mistakes. Acting desperate is like a cancer that slowly eats your chances of scoring with the ladies. You’ll never get a single woman interested in you if you don’t learn how to be confident and stop looking like a desperate fool.
Sorry about the harshness, my friends. I’m just trying to emphasize a point. Women know how to identify a desperate guy. And when she does find you, you can bet your top and bottom dollar that you will NEVER get her to look your way.
To make her want you, build attraction. To do that, you have to boost confidence. It’s as simple as that.
What are the signs that you are a desperate guy?
- You settle for just about any woman
It’s safe to assume that desperate guys are those who’ve been rejected by ladies in the past. These guys feel like they are running short on options so they’d settle for any lady—even if they’re not really attracted to them.
- You are a “yes” man
This guy is scared to cause the woman displeasure so he says “yes” to everything she says. He wants her to feel good and secure, when the truth is he is scared to disagree with her and drive her away. To him, she’s all that he’s got so he won’t push her away by saying “no.”
- You succumb to her every whim
This is similar to being a “yes” man. Because you don’t want her to drop you and date another guy, you give her what she wants, even if it’s unreasonable.
- You let her take charge
When you let her decide where to eat or what to do on your date, then you are in a very dangerous position. By letting her take the reins, you are basically handing her over your entire being.
All these signs are unhealthy; they also indicate how much balls you have—which is basically none. Don’t be the desperate guy. You’ll look like a fool. If a woman puts up with you, it could be just because they enjoy being the dominant person or they like to just make fun of you.
But for the rest of the female species, it’s very unattractive. So unless you want to be the lapdog or single for the rest of your life, learn how to be confident. Have some balls. Be calm and cool. That’s how the ladies like it.
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