Now that you have found your inner confidence, you are ready to get out there and find the woman you desire.
You have a lot of things going on for you: you dress cool, act cool, have the proper mindset, and you are intensely horny for a girl. So what else do you need to do? Get out there and start cruising.
But…just because you have tapped into the inner confident you doesn’t guarantee that you can get a woman talking to you until the bar is announcing its last call for the rounds of beer and eventually invite her to your place. You need to know how to be a man.
Don’t be disillusioned, my friend. There are still some things you need to do.
No more Mr. Nice Guy
Experience will tell you that not all nice guys finish first, not in this context, at least. If you are serious in getting the woman you want, you have to be assertive, my friend. No more Mr. Nice Guy.
You may start to wonder why I am saying this. Does this mean you have to be the bad guy? Become a jerk?
No. All I am saying is you should not be the kind of guy women talk to because they think you are too nice you could be like her baby brother, or counselor, or priest, or worse, the dad they never had.
A lot of guys unknowingly slip into the nice guy syndrome and kill their chances of getting serious with women.
Remember this carefully: if you show women that you are too much of a gentleman that they feel too comfortable with you, you will not be able to build sexual tension. This means you are defeated even before you get the chance to play the game.
Just look at the guys women find “too nice.” You’d see them either being the shoulder to cry on for these women or listening to the endless stories about how hurt they’ve been after a previous relationship. If you think being on the receiving end of such trust and confidence gives you an advantage because you get closer to the woman, you are gravely mistaken, dude. This only makes you their BFF.
How you can be the man women have always wanted
To make things a lot easier for you, here are the ways on how you can be the kind of man women lust after:
- Rule number 1 would tell you that you don’t need to change yourself; no need to be another person. Just be you. Follow your heart; be motivated by your passion. Do what you need to do; do what you want. Have a winning attitude. That’s what makes a man. Having the right mindset is what separates the sexy men from the wimpy dudes.
- Do not be afraid of anything—including yourself. Some men fail to create the attraction they want in a woman because they are repress themselves. They are afraid that if they heed their instincts and be driven by their natural craving for physical contact, they’d come off as jerks who have nothing in their mind but sex.
This can be attributed to the Mr. Nice Guy syndrome. You so want the girl to see and like you as a gentleman, you fight your natural urges. Men want sex. We all crave for that. That’s the way nature intended it to be, so there is no need to deliberately ignore it. Women will respond favorably to you if you let them know that you are eventually interested in sex.
- Be sociable.
- Try to be in shape.
- You need to be sensible. Women are turned off by stupid dorks.
- Do not be afraid of failure. There will be times when you will be rejected upfront. You should not be torn down by such setbacks. Learn to take things coolly, that is necessary for you to learn how to be a man. Girls will like that in you.
To be a natural Don Juan, you need to learn when to stop being Mr. Nice Guy and start discovering how to be a real man. Looks won’t matter much, nor would cars or having a fat bank account. Women won’t care. You need to give them what they want and satisfy them.
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