A lot of stuff about pick-up out there assumes that people are lacking something… that people need to upgrade and get add-ons. Here is a new perspective that looks at the opposite end of the spectrum.
Elimination
“One does not accumulate but eliminate.
It is not daily increase but daily decrease.
The height of cultivation always runs to simplicity.”
- Bruce Lee
That statement packs a lot of meaning. In today’s society there is so much emphasis on living life with “more, more, more!” consumerism goes rampant, materialism becomes ingrained with the social mentality, and people are still not happy. And I don’t think the current economic climate is helping either.
I believe in this day and age it is relevant for us to take a good long look at our lives and see what works, as well as what doesn’t. The simplest way to begin on the path to recovery is simply to eliminate what doesn’t work.
I’ve come to the sobering realization that for most people life isn’t about living. Instead, life has become a series of distractions. People are so desperate to look for meaning in their lives that they would cling onto the next shiny new thing every time… as a distraction. Example: How many times have you check your email or Facebook account today?
Doing things that serve little to no constructive purpose, that do not work to cultivate one’s own being… that’s not for me.
So I want you to take some time and think about where you are in your life, and where you lie on the happiness scale. Find out what works…and what doesn’t.
Eliminate your bad habits
More specific to pick up, here is something new to think about.
Imagine if you were already a sex god, a being exuding so much attraction that women will fight for a place in your heart… and your bed.
I believe it is already a reality for us. The answer to peeling our way to this godly core: elimination.
Think in terms or eliminating bad traits, rather than adding good traits. The key idea here is that you already have everything; you need only to dig away your bad traits to find the awesome potential inside you.
Confidence issues? Don’t add confidence, take away nervousness.
Can’t hold a conversation? That’s baloney, you’re an awesome conversationalist, just less “umm’s” and “ahh’s,” and eliminate stuff that usually doesn’t work, like constantly asking girls questions.
That’s not to say that you don’t still need to practice. This is the most effective mechanism by which you will discover for yourself what works and what doesn’t. With experience you will learn to eliminate bad habits, and cultivate a better you.
As you move on you will find yourself at a stage where you find that you have passed through knowledge, and arrived at simplicity. And that is exactly where you want to be, to be able to reach your goals in the simplest and most effective manner possible.
- XaC
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