Hold on a sec! I’m not talking about this advice, the advice I’m giving you right now. I’m talking about the advice you’re getting from everyone else, very possibly the worst dating advice of all:
“Just be yourself”–The worst dating advice ever
This corny line gets tossed around more than a cheerleader at the top of the pyramid…and begs just as badly to get dropped. As far as bad dating advice goes, “just be yourself” ranks right up there with “no means yes” and “friends first, then see where it goes”.
What makes “just be yourself” such bad advice? For starters, it’s a blow-off answer. “Just be yourself” is the kind of bad dating advice people pass out when they either don’t know anything better, or don’t care. Anyone who tells you to “just be yourself” probably isn’t taking your problem very seriously.
What’s worse is it doesn’t work. Think about it: has just being yourself worked for you so far? Before you answer, let me remind you that you are looking at a website devoted to dating advice for men.
Be better than yourself–be your best self
The idea that you should be yourself, or be content with yourself, is not very constructive. Successful people, in any field, strive to be more than themselves–they try to be their best self. This is the attitude you should have as well–one of constant improvement toward reaching your ideal.
Don’t forget that picking up women is a skill, not a talent. The difference? A skill is something you learn, while a talent is something you’re born with. This obviously already makes some sense to you: you’re here, reading this article, trying to learn some dating tips. That’s the first step toward change; realizing that you can improve your pick up skills, and looking for the means to do so. Coming to this website was a wise decision; here, and especially in the Members’ Section, you can find all kinds of great advice to improve your game.
But the important thing to remember is that you can improve it; you’re not stuck with whatever meagre masculine charm you were born with. Otherwise, the entire human race would have become blond, muscular, and really dumb a long time ago. Knowing that you have the ability to improve yourself, you need to get out of the “just be yourself” mindset–the frame of mind that you should be completely satisfied with who you are, faults, flaws, and all. Instead, get into the “improve yourself” mindset–make the conscious decision, here and now, that you’re going to work on your dating skills and get better at picking up women. Remind yourself of this commitment often, at least once a day. Drop bad pick up advice like “just be yourself”, and instead, work on becoming your best self–the you that is a pick up demigod.
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