Approaching the target the right way is critical to successfully seduce a woman in crowded places. Trying to get a date in public places like the bar (for some reason, bars are the most used examples for hooking up with girls) can be a bit difficult. Although there are tons of women in places like these, not everyone will be sitting alone, trying to down a glass of vodka, waiting for a guy to come to her side and start talking the wits out of her.
More often than not, the hot girls come in groups. For us guys, women in groups can be a tough challenge. It’s going to be a bit harder to get some girl to leave her group and spend the rest of the night with you.
But it isn’t impossible.
If you know the right way on approaching the target, then you will discover that attracting a woman who is part of a group is actually quite easy to accomplish. The key here is to isolate her.
What would you do if you spot a hot chick but unfortunately has a lot of company? Would you:
A. Approach the group and introduce yourself to the girl you like
B. Come over and introduce yourself to the rest of the group
Most guys would instinctively do the letter A. They think that they need to be direct to the point and let the girl he likes know he’s attracted to her. This, most of the times, fail to work regardless of whether the girl feels the same way or not due to the simple fact that the rest of her friends are isolated.
By approaching the target directly, you are alienating the other girls, and for them, it’s similar to verbally saying “I don’t care about your girls, just this pretty one over here.” You’ve probably been around girls long enough to know that girls don’t like it when they feel left out and discarded.
You don’t want to irk one girl; you definitely don’t want to get a lot of girls annoyed at you. Even if your object of desire is attracted to you as well, if her friends don’t like you, you won’t stand a chance.
Option B will work effectively simply because you are trying to win her friends over. Here, it’s actually advised that you isolate the girl you like and make the rest of the group like you.
Talk to the rest of the girls; make them laugh. Give them a good time. Be sincere in getting to know them—and isolate that one girl. The more she feels isolated, the more she’ll want to compete for your attention.
Remember, though, to not keep her isolated for long because she might feel resentful and develop a really bad impression of you. When you feel like you’ve got everybody liking you, it’s time to move on your target.
Start talking and paying more attention to her more. She will definitely appreciate this. She’ll feel special when you make it obvious that you like her.
Focus more of your attention to her, but make sure to not entirely alienate the rest of the group. The great thing about this is that they can even hook you up with their friend. You’ll need to be in their good graces if you want to successfully close the girl you like.
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