Are you scared of being the nice guy that every girl feels safe to be around with?
While being liked by girls is fine because it means you’re not repulsive both in appearance and attitude, it keeps you from establishing something that most men want—sexual attraction.
Yes, the hard truth is that the guy women feel comfortable with almost never gets the chance to bed her; unless she gets really heartbroken and drunk and you happen to be with her in her apartment or you are blessed with a divine intervention.
But you surely don’t want to wait for these two things to happen because the chances of them occurring right now are very slim.
What you need to do is to learn how to become an alpha male.
Learn—no, display alpha male body language. Don’t just learn how to look alpha because it’s so passive. What you need to do is to manifest.
Did you know that in dating, your body language speaks more (92%) to women than the things you say (8%).
You have to be the type of guy who women stare at in awe; the kind that makes them wonder what your name is and where you came from.
You know the alpha male’s drift. You are very aware of how they are able to effortlessly become the center of attention of so many women even though they are not the handsomest or best well-mannered guy in the room.
They just act naturally and don’t put on pretensions—even if the way they are is brash.
So what’s the secret to becoming an alpha male?
You first need to remember that having the alpha mindset is very important. If you are to start displaying alpha male body language, it has to be natural.
Some men simply read articles on this and follow the tips as if they are trying to cook a turkey roast. While they do it the exact same way, it feels forced; it comes off as a put-on, which doesn’t escape a woman’s instinct.
If you do it this way, she will sense you’re not really an alpha male inside. It just came with the cool coat you are wearing.
So start with your head. Spend several meaningful minutes (it doesn’t matter how long) psyching yourself up. Think alpha. Feel that you posses the qualities of an alpha male.
Be confident.
This is the main thing all alpha male has. It’s what gives them strength and the natural charm. It’s like sunlight for Superman.
Unless you start believing in yourself, you won’t be able to make others believe in you. Always remember that.
Don’t give a sh*t
You don’t have to be as cute or as rich as the others. You just have to be YOU. That’s what other alpha males do. They don’t give a sh*t to what others think. They just do their thing.
And if you do yours without inhibitions, other guys will admire you for being bold and women will find you attractive.
Do not apologize for anything
Live without apologies. You don’t need to ask other’s approval for the things you do. It’s how natural leaders (which are considered alpha) work. Let others seek your approval.
When you approach a woman and offer her a drink, don’t ask her what she wants. Give her anything you want. She’ll interpret it as a sign that you are dominant. If she doesn’t like it, don’t say sorry and order another one. Leave it there.
She’s more likely to down that drink.
Walk, stand, and smile like a star
With your new-found confidence, start to show everybody what a natural leader you are. Strive to be the one others follow and ask for approval. When you walk into a room, a bar, or any place where there people, walk with a swagger; hold your head high and always have a smile ready.
Think how celebrities are when they are in a social situation. When you see them on T.V., they glow not because they are celebrities, it’s because they are confident enough to talks to others as if they’ve known each other for a long time and they stand and talk a certain way.
Though you need to stand straight, don’t be stiff. When you stand too erect, you’ll look like a statue. Stand just the right way.
And don’t put your hands in your pocket or across your chest. A closed body language will show women you should not be approached. Just hook your thumb in your pockets. It’s a lot cooler that way.
When talking to a woman, don’t be smiling too much. Look her in the eyes and listen to what she has to say. But you have to remember you shouldn’t be letting her take over the situation. You are the alpha male so you have to be in control of the conversation.
Don’t laugh if she says something funny or witty. Just give her a grin or a smile.
Laughing sometimes gives women the notion that they got you hooked. It should be the other way. She has to be the one seeking your approval.
If you simply smile after her witty comment, she’ll wonder if you don’t find her funny or witty enough. As a result, she’ll try harder to make you laugh. See where this leads to?
Don’t be afraid to reach over and touch her
An alpha male is no wuss. This means he doesn’t chicken out when he wants to touch a woman in the arm or cross her personal space. If you want to touch her arm, do so. Do you feel like leaner closer? Do it.
Your assertiveness and courage will only make her more excited to be with you. This will also build sexual tension.
So what do you do next?
Get out there and start being active in social scenes. Remember that you have to be confident first because that is what gets the ball rolling. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes along the way. You’re an alpha male, so you don’t have to be apologetic to anything, even if you’ve made some blunders.
That’s how you get women to want you and guys to want to be like you. Display alpha male body language and you’re ready to conquer women.
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